It sounds like she could be equating gifts with affection. Perhaps she thinks because you don't buy her things enough that you don't care for her as much as you could? Some women view gifts as proof of affections, sad to say. I know that I generally don't do that but have fallen into lows on occasion where I bugged my boyfriend for some sort of proof of his affection. My boyfriend is cheap. He rarely buys me anything while I am usually lavishing gifts on him because I make more money. In my case though, it was more that he forgot the little things like Christmas presents (when he knew that I was going to buy him one in advance) and not buying me the usual romantic gifts like flowers (though I'm like Cynthetiq's girl in that I'm torn about receiving flowers that are going to die).
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