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Old 02-20-2007, 09:16 AM   #13 (permalink)
onodrim
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Originally Posted by Dilbert1234567
delete, delete, delete... first, out of respect, second so it wont bite you in the ass down the road, you never know what could happen and they could get out.
Agreed. As much as it sucks to get rid of them, that's what happens when you breakup, you lose something that you previously enjoyed. It's not fair to her to "cheat the system" and still get to enjoy her naked if she's cut that part of her out of both of your lives. Simply put, if she has asked you to delete the material, then you owe her the respect to do as she has asked. If her only concern is that it is still on your computer, then you could ask her if she would be comfortable with you putting it on CD. But in general, I would say the best course would be to do as she asked and delete it. Since she's the one in the more vunerable position, it has to be about what she wants and not what you want.
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