abaya

Note to yourself: I don't know how old this girl is, but young women in general tend to not hear/listen to those kinds of "warnings." No seriously, they don't even hear it... one ear, out the other. The fact that she didn't take you seriously about what you said, should show you how mature of a friend she really is.

EDIT: I'll say it from a personal note... when I was 16-18, I had a male best friend who never showed an ounce of interest in me. I knew we were completely platonic (in his mind), but I was thoroughly in love with him... and if he ever even brushed my lips, let alone went further than that, I would've been a goner. No matter what he had said about "no relationships" previously... because I wanted any physical touch/interest from him. I was a headcase and he was clueless (as are most people at that age).

Honestly, you should've considered this before sleeping with her. One thing doesn't just lead to another... that's a cop-out. You both made decisions, and now you're facing the consequences. Sorry to lay it down like that, but that's what you're facing here.

And yeah, you probably will lose the friendship. Sounds like it's not worth keeping though, honestly. Friends don't pull this shit on each other.

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And think not you can direct the course of Love;
for Love, if it finds you worthy, directs your course.
--Khalil Gibran