Breaking it off with a really good friend
I won't bore you with the details, so I'll just summarize.
Me and a really good friend of mine ended up sleeping together about a week or so ago and ever since then I've become her unwitting boyfriend (Yeah. She considers us a couple, even though I didn't agree to it. I remember telling her beforehand that I wasn't looking for a relationship). She's been talking about getting married and having kids and all that other good stuff which I don't want to think about right now. At one point, I did like her but now I find that she's become overly annoying and obsessive. The thing is, though, that every time I try to talk to her about "Us" she usually ends up talking about how guys have played on her emotions and how she wasted two years of her life on her ex and how she's glad that I won't break her heart, etc.. I know that I should really break it off with her, but I find it nearly impossible to do because she guilts me into absolutely terrible. As pathetic as it might sound, I really can't hurt someone who's been a really good friend of mine for a long time.
Sooo... Any advice?
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Last edited by Infinite_Loser; 02-18-2007 at 04:39 PM..
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