Originally Posted by Gilda

For me, it's sometimes.

Most of the time when I get horny, there's no fear involved.

However, a horror movie or a thriller can leave me in an excited state where it's a little easier to get turned on. I also enjoy being a BDSM bottom. Some of the most stimulating parts of it for me come when I don't know what's coming next and there's the possibility that Grace will take things a little farther than I'd expected. There's also the mildly masochistic side, where it isn't so much the infliction of pain that causes the sexual reaction so much as it's the anticipation of what's to come, which heightens my state and the response that comes. It's like on a roller coaster, where that big drop down the first hill is nice in itself, but the ride up the hill heightens your anticipation, and that moment just after the chain lets go and you're moving freely, but before the big drop begins, that's the best, most exciting part of it.