I honestly think of it as a comprimise: I go to some chick flicks, she goes to a couple of action movies
It's mostly about spending time together
In general, I find that the plot just doesn't do anything for me - good for an two hours of entertaiment, and that's that. Not that most action films are any better (objectively speaking), but they make me go "oooh" and "aaaah" from all the explosions :P