I used to go all the time with my ex. He was more of the "bad boy" type then my husband (long hair, motorcycle, etc
and he was up for going as often as I wanted to. He was also up for me trying to seduce the dancers into going home with us.
My husband on the other hand doesn't really care at all for that enviroment so we have not been.
I would say though that when I did go I did enjoy it. I found some of the women to be very attractive and I quite enjoyed all the attention I got. I think the kind of attention they give women is much different then what they give the men patrons. It is definately more 'hands on'. I have been kissed and fondled and such and never seen that happen to a man while I was there.