so, lately, I've been attending exotic dance clubs. And It has me very curious about how other women feel about these clubs.
here's my experience with these clubs.
Being a girl in a strip club is like walking in an alternate universe, one I happen to be very comfortable in. I'm fit, I feel good about myself, I'm not threatened looking at beautiful women. The dancers have told me, it's so refreshing to be dancing for a girl and to be interacting with me instead of the male patrons. Firstly, I'm very very respectful. I always ask things nicely and I never assume it's okay to even touch their hand unless I'm invited to do so. I have great respect for these women, they are brave and very confident in themselves, I think that attitude comes across when I'm there.
Now, i've been to strip clubs, but never felt comfortable getting a lapdance. I suppose my curosity got the best of me last night. Topper encouraged me to do whatever I wanted and that he was fine with me getting one. I however, didn't want to experience it without him. So I managed to convince the lovely dancer to do a *couples dance* for us. It's been a good loophole for me, I can remain monogamous, while still getting the chance to enjoy being bisexual in a small way. Also, Topper doesn't complain about going with me
I respect the dancers and what they do, I respect their confidence. I enjoy being a patron and forsee myself continuing to attend these clubs.'
That is my view and experience. I'm wondering what yours is??
How I feel about these clubs is a far cry from how my family and indeed even some of my friends feel. Many people feel disturbed about the very thought of a topless dancer.
I'm really curious.
How do you feel about strip clubs? What are your experiences? If you've been to one, how was it for you? If you've not been to one: do you want to go or would you never be caught dead at one?
If you attend, do you attend with an S.O.? Have you ever attended just for your S.O.?
Please share your thoughts and opinions.