Woah, something's gone out of hand, here...
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Originally Posted by smooth
because you and others directly asked me questions after that post.
this place is neither yours nor mine and my change of mind to respond to those questions isn't of any concern to anyone but myself
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While you are certianly not obligated to respond to her inquiry, she is certainly free to ask. The question doesn't make this board hers or yours...
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I'm unsure how I can be both defensive and accusatory, but that's neither here nor there. I certainly didn't set out to come across that way, and I may be reacting to what appears to be people bandwagoning in a different direction and me left in the wind explaining how I could be so insensative as to not comprehend how this guy is a total asshole, when in reality no one on here knows a single effn thing about what happened other than what you're putting out there.
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While I never sensed any accusation or defensiveness on your part before, I'm starting to sense it, now!
What would it matter to you if people "bandwagon?" Some posters have mentioned that they find your stance "incomprehensible" but you're the one who is interpreting this to mean that you are "insensitive." I understand that you simply have a different pont of view. Is it so hard to imagine that they may have the same understanding as me?
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and I never said it was morally or socially appropriate to take visibly sick or drunk women home with the intent to get with them. nor did I say you were "hung up" on anything...in fact, only you in this latest response used that phrase yet you placed it in quotes...which should go some way in explaining why I feel myself becoming defensive.
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Well, I'm relieved to see that you can tell when you're being defensive. Let me ask, why do you feel this need? Why don't you just post as if you have nothing to defend? What's the worse that can happen? Personally, I think that's the situation you're in...
abaya never said that you called her "hung up." She said that she thought you were hung up and then mentioned that she might be, as well, but that she would have good reason to be. The quotes she was using was to quote herself since she had used that very phrase in a sentence, earlier...
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all I said was that you were responsible for losing your virginity. and that was based off you saying you were conscious and enjoying sex in the shower until you realized you weren't with your friend. it's not a trial to me, but I never asked you for proof just pointed out that your narrative shifted and now that we've got no one else in here I'm not going to be one of the guys who automatically takes your account as an invitation to indict the dude for rape or being an asshole, especially when you don't even know what happened yourself.
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Okay, something's gone terribly wrong here. You're making totally wild accusations now and it's crazy. There is no trial on you, no one said that you had "asked for proof," and no one thinks she should indict anyone.
Honestly, where is all this coming from?