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because you and others directly asked me questions after that post.
this place is neither yours nor mine and my change of mind to respond to those questions isn't of any concern to anyone but myself
I'm unsure how I can be both defensive and accusatory, but that's neither here nor there. I certainly didn't set out to come across that way, and I may be reacting to what appears to be people bandwagoning in a different direction and me left in the wind explaining how I could be so insensative as to not comprehend how this guy is a total asshole, when in reality no one on here knows a single effn thing about what happened other than what you're putting out there.
and I never said it was morally or socially appropriate to take visibly sick or drunk women home with the intent to get with them. nor did I say you were "hung up" on anything...in fact, only you in this latest response used that phrase yet you placed it in quotes...which should go some way in explaining why I feel myself becoming defensive.
all I said was that you were responsible for losing your virginity. and that was based off you saying you were conscious and enjoying sex in the shower until you realized you weren't with your friend. it's not a trial to me, but I never asked you for proof just pointed out that your narrative shifted and now that we've got no one else in here I'm not going to be one of the guys who automatically takes your account as an invitation to indict the dude for rape or being an asshole, especially when you don't even know what happened yourself.
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