Tilted Forum Project Discussion Community - View Single Post

smooth · 02-12-2007, 02:15 PM

if you're going to ask me a direct question, then I'll answer I suppose...

"coming at me" in that every response starts with "you didn't read my posts, you don't understand what I'm saying, you don't get it"

she's not doing that to anyone else, and that implies to me that she's feeling support from those responses and not mine...which should answer your second question.

and abaya, I can only guess that your friends probably think that you are responsible, but why would they say it like I did? of course they think he's an asshole. they are your friends and support, I'm just an anonymous poster.

the reason I kept bringing up that point is that you still haven't answered my question...what was he supposed to do differently? what makes him an asshole?
EDIT: to clarify, I didn't see any "harm" done to you, from your description other than having lost your virginity. But he didn't know that until afterward. You are placing more value on the sex that was conducted purely by the fact that it was your first time. That decision is yours to make, he didn't violate your right to keep your virginity. although it certainly comes across like he did. at worst, he was having sex with a drunk girl, and that happens all the time.

I don't read journals. I keep the personas of who I interact with entirely within the context of each thread I come across. I was responding to you in relation to what Halx was bringing up.

02-12-2007, 02:15 PM	#90 (permalink)
smooth Junkie Location: Right here	if you're going to ask me a direct question, then I'll answer I suppose... "coming at me" in that every response starts with "you didn't read my posts, you don't understand what I'm saying, you don't get it" she's not doing that to anyone else, and that implies to me that she's feeling support from those responses and not mine...which should answer your second question. and abaya, I can only guess that your friends probably think that you are responsible, but why would they say it like I did? of course they think he's an asshole. they are your friends and support, I'm just an anonymous poster. the reason I kept bringing up that point is that you still haven't answered my question...what was he supposed to do differently? what makes him an asshole? EDIT: to clarify, I didn't see any "harm" done to you, from your description other than having lost your virginity. But he didn't know that until afterward. You are placing more value on the sex that was conducted purely by the fact that it was your first time. That decision is yours to make, he didn't violate your right to keep your virginity. although it certainly comes across like he did. at worst, he was having sex with a drunk girl, and that happens all the time. I don't read journals. I keep the personas of who I interact with entirely within the context of each thread I come across. I was responding to you in relation to what Halx was bringing up. __________________ "The theory of a free press is that truth will emerge from free discussion, not that it will be presented perfectly and instantly in any one account." -- Walter Lippmann "You measure democracy by the freedom it gives its dissidents, not the freedom it gives its assimilated conformists." -- Abbie Hoffman Last edited by smooth; 02-12-2007 at 02:21 PM..