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Basically, I was acting like I was sober (which happens when you are blacked out, apparently) and thus giving "consent," even though if I was REALLY sober, there's no way in hell I'd have gone home with that dude.
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Now, you claim you were acting drunk, couldn't walk, vomitting all over the place, just lying around while he poked and prodded you and asked if he could have sex with you.
Yet, in an earlier response to Gilda, you wrote:
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I was neither incapacitated or unconscious during the entire night, and was in fact quite lucid... to the point where I was telling aspects of my life story very clearly and conscientiously, as quoted back to me by the guy after I sobered up...
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You even wrote that you remember yourself enjoying the sex, only to later realize that you were with a different man than you had thought.
If you are asking, I hold you 100% responsbile for the loss of your virginity that night, and yes, I posted that earlier. If you want to change your story so that the description is more in line with you being incapacitated and now looks very different to me from what you were initially describing, then fine, but that wasn't the way you were portraying the interaction when I first responded.
Regardless, the point remains that if young adults were taught to not drink beyond their limits, then these sorts of interactions wouldn't occur.