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Originally Posted by MEAD
I love to go down on my girlfriend. It's exciting and I like to know she really enjoys it. For the most part I know she does enjoy it, in fact I think she's enjoying it to an extent that makes it difficult to perform. Basicly, she's a squirmer. When she is really getting into to it, I feel like rodeo bull rider, and sometimes I think shes going to break my nose. I'm really not concerned for myself as much as I am for her. As she is moving around, I lose contact wth her at moments and I feel as if it isnt as pleasurable as it could be. At times I do grab her down and hold her steady, but she's pretty difficult to control, and at the same time I want her to move around as she pleases. Should I suck it up, and just keep doing my best? Or should I talk to her about maybe trying to help me help her?
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Well, different strokes for different folks but a couple of things I've found work well with squirmers:
1) Her on her back, legs dangling over the edge of the bed, you kneeling in front of her holding her legs down with your arms. She is in such a position where she simply can't buck up and down too much and is easy to control.
2) 69 position, her on top. You hold her by the ankles and fold her legs (so her heels are facing her own ass). Again, this minimizes the squirming and bucking (but can be hard on those with bad backs or for prolonged periods).
Have fun trying!