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Originally Posted by Miss Mango
Did you ever think you might secretly be a lesbian or have fantasized more about a woman than a man?
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Yes, I used to do that quite a bit. I've long since moved past the stage of wondering.
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I have never been with one, but i do think about one woman in particular a lot. Im not sure if I like her or not. im confused . Though i seem to like men..
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Same-sex attraction, even among people who identify as exclusively heterosexual and are such in practice, is perfectly normal and acceptable. Women in particular seem to have a more fluid sexuality and are far more likely to identify as bisexual than are men.
If you're attracted to men and enjoy sexual contact with men, you're not secretly a lesbian, but what you describe sounds like either bisexual or bi-curious.
It's also possible to feel affection or attraction to a particular person who isn't otherwise part of your primary attraction; it's even possible to fall in love with someone who isn't part of the group that forms your primary attraction. Again, I think this is more common among women than men, for whom sexuality seems to be hardwired at birth.
Gilda, a 5 on the Kinsey scale.
Oh, and if my wife and sister are any indication, there are some who aren't anywhere in between. Grace is a very solid 6, no current or past sexual attraction to men. Sissy is a very solid 0, with no current or past sexual attraction to women.