I am going to say that I'm in the air on this topic. On one hand, yes a woman has the right to say no no matter what action is taking place. For all we know the guy could've intially said that he's using a condom and then doesn't use one, so she says yes but then says no for that reason. That to me would be an acceptable use of the law.
And on the other hand, being a guy, I know how hard it is to stop in the middle of the "act." We like sex and it just feels good to finish. And stopping in the middle just leaves you with our good ole friend blue balls. It's just how we're made.
I agree with you Halx, that it is giving someone a little bit of power and being a little power hungry and that it could explode into something ridiculous. People lose their grip on reality when they want something (more power) and then lose a sense of morale belief or responsibility. Like in my example, the woman should've had a condom on hand "just in case."
But to me, it's both parties should be at fault. One for the guy not being able to stop. And two for her changing her mind, it's misleading and it's wrong. Unfortunately only one of those options are punishable by law. But sex is such a diverse action. It's focused on the individual rights instead of the social acceptability.
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