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So intimate equals "sweet"?
For me, intimacy means openness, vulnerability, and an emotional connection. Some of the roughest sex I've ever had has been extremely intimate. There have been times when lurkette and I have roleplayed rape fantasies, for instance. It's all inside fantasy and completely safe, but I'll tell you, the vulnerability and intimacy on both of our parts was astonishing. But there was nothing "tender" or "sweet" about it.
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