Kissing is far more emotionally intimate.
Intercourse, assuming by this that you mean heterosexual vaginal sex, always seemed coldly mechanical to me, like I was a thing to be used for his pleasure, but I was never able to connect closely to any of my boyfriends, so that probably interferes with my ability to look at this question objectively.
Then again, there really is no way to be objective here, so that hardly makes me unique.
I've always found oral sex to be more intimate than intercourse, but less so than kissing and even snuggling.
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