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Old 02-02-2007, 08:08 AM   #232 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by pigglet
I don't even know what to say about this thread, and the root issue behind it. From my perspective, its just internet forums. Some issues came up. It seems that if the parties involved chose, they could deal with those issues and be done with it. Or they could just say fuck it, and move on. Regardless, I hardly see why everyone one else cares so damn much.

I've been having fun over at C:A. No, its not tfp. Yes, the membership is highly overlapped. I thought about the point that C:A could essentially be called Tilted Trampoline 2, but the fact is that in order for it to function, it has to be separate. I think that will become more interesting as time passes. But its like saying that you'll have the same experience if you go to an upscale nightclub, or a hole in the wall. They might have the same beer on tap, but the experience will be totally different. You can go with the same people, but you'll have completely different conversations. And if you take too much of it too seriously, you'll get in some sort of stupid argument before the night is over.

I am concerned about the possibility / probability of issues leaking back from C:A to tfp, but in the long run I think that's for the best. If the only thing making people think they like each other is because they are limited by some veneer of civility here, I would think all parties interested would want to know that. Personally, I've never found tfp to be limiting at all, and I've said some pretty crude shit here. I think its all in the delivery, but nonetheless...

I agree with spectre: stop taking all this so seriously.
It's really hard to do when it starts out as a slugfest, then spills over with people playing this 'she/he started it-I always hated her/him-I'm just defending myself' bullshit.
I never took things seriously-life's a game and no one 'wins'-but when you start that crap and allow it to fester, 'seriously' takes over.
Both here and there, people I'd respected came out with "i always hated you and this is why' and I'm sitting here thinking 'wtf did I do to you???'
The cow is out of the barn-you can't just close the door.
I gave infractions as a joke and got slammed for it unmercifully and flooded with those stupid things.
Sorry, but that is not my idea of a fun time.
'Just the internet' is a copout. It doesn't give permission for people to treat others like shit. And if that's the fun everyone wants because it's 'just the internet', no thanks. I go in unregistered and it's fluff and high school lunchroom anyway.
Hal had mentioned that he wanted more action, more traffic, etc. I don't think that bringing hatred in is the way to go about it, nor is bringing in 'fluff'.
And if you have to constantly defend your actions and try to save face in something you called 'fun', then maybe you need to rethink your reasons for doing what you do and why you're here.
You can't sell people on something when it started out as crap.
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