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Old 01-31-2007, 01:29 PM   #139 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by Menoman
You didnt even know that person!! You only knew the censored "Ohh I better not post what I think coz the TFP super elite known ones will strike me down"

You can't respect someone who is a fake, we here, we are all fakes, we censor ourselves.

You want to truly respect someone? Go to that forum and see how they act, you can respect someone who in a consequence free enviroment and still upholds the morals YOU think are good.
Bloody fucking hell. Here it comes.

You speak for yourself and others like you; fine for that. DO NOT speak for me, goddammit. I POST WHAT I THINK. I don't give a flying fuck about the "TFP super elite" because I don't post to piss them off, or anyone off. I post my opinion, whatever it may be, no matter how inflammatory or boring its content. If they want to censor me for that, fine... but guess what? I have never been censored or penalized here, and it's not because I'm being fake.

I don't need to "go to another forum" to respect someone in a consequence-free environment. My respect comes from seeing people in as many *different* environments as possible... and if they are inconsistent between environments (not in terms of "social expectations," e.g. wedding vs. funeral, but actual PERSONALITY and integrity), yes, they sure as hell lose my respect.

There is a quote somewhere that "Your character is revealed by what you will do when you think you will never get caught." That is the principle I operate on, in terms of evaluating my respect for others... online or IRL. Whether or not I get "caught" or not, THIS IS WHO I AM. Ask anyone who's met me IRL from TFP, and I am quite sure they will tell you that I'm not a whole lot different in either setting.

Feel free to disrespect me in this forum or any other, or in real life. Go for it. Knock yourself out.

EDIT: And by the way, if you want to bring up the fact that I started threads about the TFP not being kinky enough, etc, go ahead. I stand behind those threads, because what I was trying to do was help change the TFP, not go running somewhere else to hide and express my "true thoughts." As a result of that thread and others, I've been much more comfortable discussing kink and other things here, and I'm happier with the TFP as a result. If I want a change in the community, I do it HERE, not somewhere else.
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