pan, you sorta spoke my point. A few insults over at CA were thrown just in the stupid spirit of insulting for no reason. They were fake. They were said in order to hurt, but did not reflect any real genuine emotions. And thats what "I've lost respect for" also communicates. There is no respect-o-meter that just dropped 40 points upon reading of said posts... its just empty posturing meant to shock someone into shame for their actions.
Sultana, all people need to be understood. If there was an action, there was a reason for the action. The real reason may not be the apparent one, so you might have to dig deeper. Either way, those reasons might reveal a much more complex picture than simply, "this guy is immature." I'm never prepared to pass judgement because of that.
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