Totally agree with ya there, Pan
It is easier and more instinctive to say 'yea, well, you're a ***' back. And it is hard to say 'enough-I'm better than this' and walk away. I know I'm better than this....
Phil's sig is so true and for the longest time I didn't get it:
Don't wrestle with a pig.
You both get dirty.
The pig likes it.
Edit; Damn, this thread is moving fast....