Umm, keep avoiding her... for the rest of your life, if possible. Quit trying to understand her... girls like that are tar babies. The more you try to get a handle on them, the stickier they become. They want to draw you into their madness and trap you with their issues. So the more energy you put into asking "Why?" or "WTF?", the more you are drawn into her little manipulative game.
The only way out is to completely cut her off, stop trying to figure her out, and move on from the friendship and any attraction you have to her. I mean, do not allow her into your life whatsoever. Coming from a female perspective, I can tell you that this is one messed-up bitch. Even if she admits it out loud, it doesn't mean she's self-aware enough to be involved with. Stay as far away as possibly, especially mentally/emotionally.
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And think not you can direct the course of Love;
for Love, if it finds you worthy, directs your course.
--Khalil Gibran
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