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Originally Posted by World's King
I'm pretty sure that once something is openly discussed and widely accepted it stops being kinky.
The bikini used to be kinky. Fuck, just showing your legs used to be kinky.
Now we have to go all the way to licking someone's ass and duct taping someone to the bed for it to considered kinky. And that's just cause we have a wide range of fucked up people here. To some a blow job is pretty out there. And to me it's something I do just before breakfast and just after my first cup of coffee.
If you're looking a for a huge group of people that are gonna agree with you on everything you like to do during sex than you're in the wrong place. We are a place for diversity. And I like it. I'm free to talk about how much I enjoy coming on my girlfriend toes. And I hope that by me being free, someone that doesn't feel as free tries to be a little more open.
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excellently stated WK.
As for me, I think everyone could add to the kinkyness factor here in sexuality if they wanted to. I have come to believe that the things people *talk* about the things they *actually* do are very different in our mainstream culture. Aka I have known many people who would appear completely vanilla by anyone's standards, but behind closed doors enjoy some pretty interesting very non-mainstream things together.
I do many things sexually with my husband that I would not feel comfortable sharing, perhaps it's because I have a former lover on TFP who is now just a friend or because I think certain things might change how people see me. But mostly it's because I just don't feel like it
*shrug*