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Originally Posted by Sharon
Well let's just say that where I was, there was NO such thing as a no-touching rule. Touching was allowed, accepted, encouraged even. Fingers and hands were allowed. Things got worse if the owner's friends came into the club, because if you got called into the VIP room by the boss (which I often was, as the young, polite, soft-spoken English girl), firstly you didn't necessarily get tipped, and secondly you were expected to allow yourself to be pawed, fingered, embraced, kissed, etc sometimes by several dirty men. And to pretend you enjoyed it. Once I was even asked by my boss to pretend I was a younger girl for a few of his friends. I never had sex in the club but it was pretty close to the line.
Ok, sorry again for the threadjack... but to bring it back slightly onto topic, this is the kind of thing I'm not always completely comfortable sharing with anyone (including TFP), and my corresponding obsession with sexual situations with dirty strangers.
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Well, I thank you for sharing it; it makes
me feel more at home.
I completely get what you're saying about the obsession with sexual situations with dirty strangers. (nicely put.) But I think that's always been a part of my fantasy life, since long before I ever started dancing....And I will admit that dancing, especially in lapdance clubs, was sort of a safe way to explore that dirty little fantasy....
When I first started dancing (still a teenager myself), there were pretty strict no-touching rules; it was pretty much all stage dancing. But that changed a lot over the years, and I ended up working in some pretty high-mileage, high-contact clubs (including the one in Japan.) I had mixed feelings about this, and I sometimes found it really hot, to be perfectly honest. Other times it was intrusive and a little hard to bear.
Hopefully this is all kinky enough that I'm not going too far off topic....
