no dick really changes nothing. You feel like you've cheated and he's felt like it so its cheating. That's the way it is.
3 things happen, he forgives you and you move on.... he lets yous tay with him but he resents you or he dumps you for cheating on him.
Regardless of what pop culture might state, not every man gets horny over the thought of their woman wanting to have group sex or be with other women. Some men want their GF to be their lover and theres alone. Which is standard. While I might sound mean, I'm glad you feel horrible about what you did because you should.
However, now if you want to save the relationship you've got to make sure that he knows it and that you won't cheat again... which is probably impossible to promise him since he no doubt never suspected you would in the first place.
But kudos on telling him, that was a brave thing to do.
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