I think "kinky" is one of those terms like "slutty" which are just too subjective to even really mean anything. As we know (or have discovered through this thread and others) people have wildly different ideas on what kink even is. Is it kinky when a boy and a girl try anything other than missionary with the lights off while married, or is it plain and ordinary when two people put knives up each other's asses? Completely subjective, and on some level I resent the implication that one is somehow better or more accepting or more enlightened than the other.
That being said, sex with restraints on my partner and ice cubes in my hands would be the most involved with extra materials I've ever gotten. I seem to find the ones that like being tied up for some reason, and I don't mind indulging that one. 
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