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Old 01-26-2007, 02:10 PM   #74 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by The_Jazz
Yet Abaya (I think) doesn't seem to find much kinky about any of that.
Well, keep in mind... just because I have done some of those things, doesn't mean I don't still consider them kinky and sometimes "too far" for me. Trying something doesn't mean that one is a fetishist (and not that being a fetishist is bad, etc etc... just that being experimental doesn't mean it's enjoyable).

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being genuinely unhealthy.
What, exactly, does that mean in this context? I'm really curious about the psychological "categorizing" of what is kink/not kink, and how this relates to degrees of "healthiness." Who gets to actually draw the line?

EDIT: Shani, yes please!
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