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				Yet Abaya (I think) doesn't seem to find much kinky about any of that. 
			
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  Well, keep in mind... just because I have done some of those things, doesn't mean I don't still consider them kinky and sometimes "too far" for me.  Trying something doesn't mean that one is a fetishist (and not that being a fetishist is bad, etc etc... just that being experimental doesn't mean it's enjoyable).
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				being genuinely unhealthy. 
			
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  What, exactly, does that mean in this context?  I'm really curious about the psychological "categorizing" of what is kink/not kink, and how this relates to degrees of "healthiness."  Who gets to actually draw the line?
EDIT: Shani, yes please! 
