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I don't know, I think what I do "regularly" is have the ol' in-and-out, penis-in-vagina sex... that's the "standard" that most people mean when they talk about "sex," right? But, like Gilda, for me that takes place a majority of the time... but not *all* the time.

So for me, "kinky" is not something I don't do... it just means anything beyond what I described above, and it takes place a small fraction of the time that we have sex. But I classify it as kinky because it's stuff that I believe a significant number of people might feel "squicky" about, as Gilda said... and that's valid.

Now, as for the things that I absolutely will not do... I would plagiarize Dan Savage here and call those "a fetish too far." And maybe that's what people talk about here, when they describe what would be too extreme for them... whatever their own limits are. I don't think "a fetish too far" really changes for most people, though. "Kinks" evolve, but absolute lines don't change.

Thoughts?

Wow, that's awesome. So you mean, like a tool board in the garage... the kind my (carpenter) dad had for hanging up his hammer, straight edge, and all the rest? Definitely sounds more organized than our current system of a heap of silicone shapes overflowing from a box...

Btw, how would you keep that a secret from your daughter (is she allowed in the basement)?

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