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Originally Posted by Charlatan
My life here has become increasingly like real life. and with it comes all of the baggage.
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Yes, thanks for bringing us back on topic. This is how I feel, too, and I really miss the anonymity. Another forum I belong to allows members to log into a universal "Anonymous" handle and post about sensitive issues, and I really like that feature. Anyone can use it (abuse of the feature is minimal, and strongly reprimanded) when they see a need for it. The rest of that forum is pretty sub-standard, when compared with TFP, but that feature allows for the kinds of 100% openness that we seem to lose around here, once you've been to a few meet-ups.
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Originally Posted by shesus
Why try to be comfortable with things if you don't have to? Why are you pushing yourself to become kinkier if it's not turning you on?
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I didn't answer your post directly, but I wanted to say that it's pretty much the second part of the post where I answered spectre (2 posts back).
I'm pushing myself to see how comfortable I am with it, because in my marriage we have different levels of comfort with kink and I would like to be able to enjoy it as much as my husband does (or at least be able to participate at a reasonable level). It is an important part of having a healthy sex life as a couple, isn't it? Meeting each other's needs and learning to enjoy that process. So that is what I am working on.