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Originally Posted by pigglet
abaya,oh, and gilda -- no reason to be ashamed, although of course i understand that you have particular issues that lead to such a result. its kind of weird for me to think about your situation - i can't really do much of the 'fantasy' stuff...i'm too much of an engineer to get into it, really.
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The biggest part of it is that it may be connected to my abused background, which makes it somewhat difficult for me to see as acceptable. I know logically that how a thing came to be as it is has no bearing on the value of that thing--a lot of great art comes out of great suffering--but it's difficult to separate mentally when I talk about these things with others.
Oh, and I like vanilla a lot, also. I like a lot of variety, but as with anything, you need to know the fundamentals, so that when other things aren't working, you have that to fall back on.