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Originally Posted by abaya
There has been a lot of "being okay with more and more things" over a very short period of time, after a very LONG period of me thinking I would be vanilla till I died... and I think I just need time to adjust to what has become "okay" so far. This thread is partly about that, and I'm glad to know that others are joining in at last.  |
I read this over a few times and I can't help but wonder why avoiding the label of "vanilla" is so important to you. Really, what does it matter if you are extremely kinky or as vanilla as can be? As long as you're having fun, that's what's important and you need to do what works best for you and what you enjoy. Sex is all about enjoyment. Do what makes you happy, not what helps you avoid a label.