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Spoiler: It's a toss up between blood play and ménage à trois.
Blood play: I got into this with one of my earlier girlfriends when I was 16. She was a bit of a goth and had a particular fascination with vampire legend and lore. To play in to that, I set up a few encounters where we played parts (after being tested, of course), her of vampire, me of victim. It was quite fun. Since then I've done it more than a few times. There is something visceral about blood, and it's intruduction into sensual playing can be quite invigorating.
Ménage à trois: 18ish, dating this gorgeous woman, she brought it up. Frankly, I'd never really considered getting involved in anything like that up until that point. It was, um, interesting. I've always been about pairing up, and the addition of another member, even though the idea was to be brought together in a single encounter and to not have deeper feelings involved, it didn't feel right. Sure, it was fun, but it served to weaken my relationship with my girlfriend. She offered to do it again when she realized that I had been a bit different since the encounter, but that let me know that she wasn't on the same page as me.
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