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abaya,
i don't think you should feel too awkward about having a lot of vanilla (ie, sub anal sex) practices turn you on. i'd posit that there is a reason that they are "vanilla." because a lot of people like to do it, over a long period of time.
oh, and gilda -- no reason to be ashamed, although of course i understand that you have particular issues that lead to such a result. its kind of weird for me to think about your situation - i can't really do much of the 'fantasy' stuff...i'm too much of an engineer to get into it, really. i know that i'm still the same little pigglet, regardless of whether i'm playing vlad the conqueror or frank ponch or whatnot. so i think its very interesting, if nothing else just from the recognition that its a reality in your life.
abaya, i think its funny that you consider anal vanilla. is that because of your evangelical roots / it's ok as long as its not in the vagina stuff? i know a lot of people for whom casual anal would be anathema.
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