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Originally Posted by abaya
I guess I thought "evolution" meant people changing their worldviews as a result of reading and partaking in this community. Being honest and human together. This community *helped* me evolve sexually... doesn't anyone else feel that way? I know you're out there.
I just feel like we've all become too chicken to be dead honest, myself included. Or it's some kind of joke (which is another way of distancing ourselves from something we don't like). Maybe this is just our current cycle... I'll wait it out, if so. But where did all those people go... it's been a long, long cycle.
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I was not using jokes to distance myself. Spec said it better than I could. I was just showing you what could happen...being Devil's advocate so to speak. I can't say that this board has aided in my sexual growth. I've always been a pretty sexual person, I just don't talk about it unless I feel like it. But I never speak of anything in particular just because I think that it's personal between JJ and I.
I find that I was more opened talking about my sexual life when I was younger and before I was married. I would hang out with my friends and we would talk about all the ways we had sex and techniques we used and such. That was in my late teens-early 20s.
I just don't really have any strange expertise or kink that people don't already know about. I think kinky needs to be defined also. Abaya, I think kinky to you has become anything you haven't done (correct me if I'm wrong). As was mentioned earlier, people have been fondling, fucking, sucking, blowing, and restraining for centuries. It's hard to find something so out there that it hasn't been discussed before in detail.
My definition of kinky is something that turns
me on. So some might think licking buttholes is kinky...I think it's disgusting. Some people might think toe sucking is kinky...I agree, especially if the tongue is in the gap by the big toe. But according to what has been mentioned here that isn't considered kinky by some people's definitions.
So, to begin this correctly I guess...what do you consider kinky?~or~What is your definition of kinky? And second: do you want this post to give you ideas about new things? Because it's hard to direct you without knowing what you like, what you have tried, and what you want to expand upon. I don't mind helping out with kinky ideas (whatever that means to you), but detailing my own sex life is not my thing.