- How much do your parents know about your sex life?
- Do they know when you lost your virginity?
- DID they know when you lost your virginity?
- Do you ever discuss sex with them?
- Have you had sex when they were in the same house?
1. They know I'm a lesbian, but that's about it; given their attitude towards homosexuality, the BDSM stuff would probably make their heads explode.
2. Yes. It was made public when my uncle and his wife were finally caught.
3. No. I kept quiet about it until I was in my 20's and it all came out in court. If we think consensual sex instead, they knew, and did everything they could to stop me because they thought I was too young and not mature enough to handle it. They were right, but that made little difference.
4. Other than a few e-mails from my mom, I've had no contact with my parents is five years, one of the issues being my sexuality.
5. Yes, when they met the woman who would become my wife. We've also had sex in my in-laws house, but we stay in the same room when we visit them and always have; it's something that's expected. My in-laws are very free and open about sexual matters; they've even given Grace advice regarding interesting BDSM activities she can do with me. Japanese people are quite reserved in some ways, but sexually isn't one of them.