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Originally Posted by willravel
Still, she was completely wrong for lying to you, and it begs the question: how did she get into college?
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Technically, I was in college when I was fifteen. Community colleges don't require you to graduate from high school to take classes so I assume that's why she was in college.
As far as the original question, no I don't believe it's wrong. I don't even really think it's wrong for someone 18-21 to date a 14-15 year old however I'd say that there are circumstances where it can be appropriate and circumstances where it is not. I'm sad to say that it seems like most of the circumstances are not ones where I would approve of someone that old dating someone that young. First of all, as mature as she may seem, she is still only 14-15 and there is alot of growing up between 15 and 18 (at least for women). Plus in my experience someone is always seeking to use the other person, which never ends well. And then there's the illegal part, but that varies from place to place, even in the US. (ie-the age of consent in Florida is 17 if the other party is under a certain age I believe and in Arizona it is okay if the two parties are within two years of age)