With the idea that once you're legal adults you can't date anybody who is 15-17, yet when you're growing up you can only legally date people below 18...it's weird to me to see there's not even more of a "withdrawal" effect of sorts for adults. Not to say that the more exaggerated form of this is okay (a 35-year-old dating an 8-year-old), but considering how lots of people still keep in contact with their high school friends and town after they turn 18 and that women in the high school age range have grown to be more mature physically and mentally than years before, I don't see how the attraction can be avoided.
So, no, the attraction isn't wrong...but if you want to act on it, I would make sure everybody involved is PERFECTLY fine with it.
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