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It doesn't necessarily always go back to how it was. One of my best friends that I made while I was in high school isn't "allowed" to talk to me anymore. It's been almost three years. He's still with the girl who wouldn't allow it. I'd never done anything wrong to her, and we'd gotten along fine the two times we'd met. This guy was my best friend. He'd been there for me when my parents kicked me out. He was the only one who'd actually tried to keep in touch with me when they shipped me off to live with cousins in Utah. I'd been there for him for his family's stuff, his girlfriend stuff, etc.
At one point she finally "agreed" to let us talk, but only if we had a chaperone. Apparently when a guy has a girlfriend, it's unloyal of him to spend any time with any other girl, regardless of the relationship. Now, I'd never heard that nonsense before, but she got online one day to chat with me and was adamant that he and I not see each other unless she was there or another friend, who she chose. It was okay, however, for her to go out with her guy friends.
I'm not saying there's no hope, I'm just saying that you shouldn't get your hopes up too high. The higher they are, the harder they fall.
Sorry to be the pessimist in the group...
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Anyone can be passionate, but it takes real lovers to be silly-Rose Franken
.... absence makes me miss him more...
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