Well seeing this post again (and having a wonderful boring day at home because of a dead car) I was supremely motivated to contribute to this thread.
Going back to the original question.
It's obvious how subjective the question is. Most of us probably wouldn't give a damn about how nipples look, just the fact enough we are in an intimate situation enough position to be involved with "Nipple gandering" is great.
To answer the question though. Does it bother me? No. Does it matter? not really..
the other question though is
Do you have a preference....
Ding ding! That should of been the question. Instead of making it a negative to have "Non standard nipples" what ever that may be...it's more a question of personal taste.
For me the best looking women aren't petite, large, or so forth...they are proportionate. I feel the same applies to nipples/areolas/breast in general. Smaller areola's for smaller breast, so on so forth.. I like nipples that point out, eraser tips are fun but they can get pretty big. Big nipples wow people.
So yeah..it was a boring night so I made this link. It's a bunch of pictures of boobies and why I like or dislike them (also it's a link to keep this page non XXX). It's long winded but tell you the truth it was great to look through pictures for these. Most were taken by me (models who did nude shoots), so be kind.
Oh My its...boobies!/
Lots of the tfp girls have great nipples.