Frosstbyte

Ok, that's not entirely true, she can, but it's definitely not the norm. Though we've only been together for about four months, she's been sexually active for years. She claims, however, that I was the first guy to give her an orgasm. From conversations with her friends, I gather that this is true and not her just saying something to boost my ego. Obviously, she's excited to have more now that she knows what it's like, which is where the problem comes in.

By FAR the most consistent way for her to cum is for her to be on top. The problem is that she seems to only be able to get herself there maybe 40-50% of the time. And when she can't, it tends to put her in a nasty mood for at least an hour afterwards because she's, understandably, disappointed. Both for the reason that I'd like my girlfriend to completely enjoy sex and feel fulfilled herself and for the reason that I'd like to enjoy sex all the way through and not deal with an unhappy girl for the rest of the night, I'm looking for any advice you people might have.

I've asked her what I do that she likes and don't likes and have a few ideas, but what she consistently says is that "My OCD kicks in and I start thinking about random stuff and I lose the moment." I have a hard time controlling what's in her head and she's in control of the movements in that position for the most part, so it's not like I'm riding away and she's totally disengaged from the activity (you know the movie stereotype I'm talking about). Lasting is never a problem for me in that position, so I'm at a bit of a loss for things I can do to help.

So I ask you, good people of the TFP, what are your suggestions for helping my g/f reach climax more consistently and, when she can't, ensure that things go as happily and smoothly as possible? Thanks in advance.