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You wait. You wait for him to have the time for you again.
I went through this too, as my best friend is a guy. And through the years we both kinda drifted away from each other here & there, but we made it. We did, in the end, keep in touch enough to keep a friendship going for 20 years, although instead of me talking to him & planning nights out, or wishing a merry christmas, it's mostly me talking to his wife.
We still get together a few times a year, (him & his wife, me & my husband) and I'd say the wait was worth it. I still know, if something horrid happened to me, I could call him at 1am in tears & he'd come over with coffee.
I guess guys go through this with their friends as well. I know why they complain that so-and-so is too busy with his woman for his friends.
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