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Originally Posted by asshopo
Anyhoo, "sex being meaningful the first time" is a standard that people place upon it.
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I think that is true to a degree. Many societies seem to place this importance on making your first time special and meaningful and to share the losing of ones virginity with someone special. And I think to a large part we have been conditioned to think that a woman should hold that belief while men don't get held to that same standard.
If a person's first time sucks, it isn't like it is going to stop most people from trying until they get it right.
But back to the original topic, I'd think I'd want to know if I was a girl's first so that perhaps I could be understanding of what she may be thinking. Perhaps a female member would have a perspective on if she would want to know if it was her partner's first time.