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Originally Posted by Daniel_
Look, my friend, if you get her number - it menas she is interested in hearing from you.
I suggest that you call her within 12-24 hours of the meeting - if se picks up, just chat. If it goes to a message service - leave a simple, but polite, message expressing your interest - you could try "Hi, I had fun meeting you, would you like to meet again?" - and then wait for her to call you back.
The thing that makes you seem too keen is NOT that you call the same or the following day.
It's calling over and over again, or leaving messages that start "hey it's me [no name given] call me if you wanna get laid".
The only rules you ought to have should be like this:
1) Always tell her you had fun and want to have more fun
2) Don't hassle her.
3) Do be overtly sexual unless she made it clear by word or deed that she wants you to be.
4) If you don't ask, you probably won't get - so if you want to see her again, tell her; when the relationship has suitably progressed, this rule also applies to licking whipped cream off her breasts, anal sex, marriage, having first go in the shower in the morning, and being tied up and flogged by her.
All in all, COMUNICATE with her.
If you don't make the call, how's that going to happen?
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Money advice.
Last girl's number I got, I droped in that I would call her that night, I met her based upon a school thing, but when that subsided, I got her phone number under personal pretenses. <- (is that the right term?)
She told me it would not be a good idea to call her that night and I agreed it would be too soon, so I called her two days later. When she picked up the phone she did not recognize my name and then the call disconnected. I called back and got an answering machine. I forgot if I left a message, but I did not get contact after that.
I figured she hung up on me and then sent me to voicemail when I called back.
I like Shanni's suggestion to ask when a good time to call would be and Daniel's agreement where the whole communication thing being so important.
