I think it should be a natural thing. I don't give out my phone number to just any guy, I'm pretty picky. If I like a guy enough to give him my number, then it means I clicked with him so I would love to hear from him the next day or the day after that. If I only got a call on the 3rd day I'd probably answer their call in a much colder tone than I would if they had called sooner, as that would mean they'd thought of me as much as I had thought of them.
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Whether we write or speak or do but look
We are ever unapparent. What we are
Cannot be transfused into word or book.
Our soul from us is infinitely far.
However much we give our thoughts the will
To be our soul and gesture it abroad,
Our hearts are incommunicable still.
In what we show ourselves we are ignored.
The abyss from soul to soul cannot be bridged
By any skill of thought or trick of seeming.
Unto our very selves we are abridged
When we would utter to our thought our being.
We are our dreams of ourselves, souls by gleams,
And each to each other dreams of others' dreams.
Fernando Pessoa, 1918
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