A question for the ages, to be sure.
I would not say necessarily that my sex drive is higher than my hubby's, he's always "up for the job" (yay!), pun intended. ;P But we do have conflict in other areas (vanilla vs. anything else, for example) that impact that area of our life.
I suspect that if life had turned out to happen to put me with someone who matched me in that area exactly, we likely wouldn't be very compatible in the rest of life, which would be much harder to deal with. So I am willing to put effort into resolving these particular issues to benefit from the matching in the rest of our life.
I suddenly realize I am writing this to myself, more than anyone else.
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"Love is a snowmobile racing across the tundra and then suddenly it flips over, pinning you underneath.
At night, the ice weasels come." -
Matt Groening
My goal? To fulfill my potential.
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