Ouch.
You Americans with your silly rules about phonecalls!
I always thought it was us British who were supposed to be uptight.
Look, my friend, if you get her number - it menas she is interested in hearing from you.
I suggest that you call her within 12-24 hours of the meeting - if se picks up, just chat. If it goes to a message service - leave a simple, but polite, message expressing your interest - you could try "Hi, I had fun meeting you, would you like to meet again?" - and then wait for her to call you back.
Or you could text - send the same sort of message as above.
The thing that makes you seem too keen is NOT that you call the same or the following day.
It's calling over and over again, or leaving messages that start "hey it's me [no name given] call me if you wanna get laid".
The only rules you ought to have should be like this:
1) Always tell her you had fun and want to have more fun
2) Don't hassle her.
3) Do be overtly sexual unless she made it clear by word or deed that she wants you to be.
4) If you don't ask, you probably won't get - so if you want to see her again, tell her; when the relationship has suitably progressed, this rule also applies to licking whipped cream off her breasts, anal sex, marriage, having first go in the shower in the morning, and being tied up and flogged by her.
All in all, COMUNICATE with her.
If you don't make the call, how's that going to happen?
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