Funny, I thought that for us men, getting pubic hair was a rite of passage from boyhood to manhood. Now you women aren't down with that? I think some here may have a Mary Kay Laterneau complex.
I can see trimming. Waxing isn't gonna happen here though. I doubt it makes me less of a man either. Being a masochist doesn't make you a man. Being so vain that you spend hours grooming hair that only a couple people see seems insecure to me. To each their own though. Whatever floats your boat.