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Originally Posted by beedubaya
Because of rejection in the past, I have a hard time just calling those guys who I barely know up and ask to go hang out or go to a movie or something. Most of the time that I've done that, even with people who I've cliqued well with, it ruined any chance of friendship.
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How did it ruin your chances of a close friendship just b/c you called them up and asked to hang out?
Personally, as long as you don't give off a weird stalker vibe, I think you're fine calling people up to hang out. The best way is talk to the people you meet a little, see if your interests align. If they do, talk some more, suggest lunch, call them up to do whatever it is your interests are..