The getting married thing is a definite yes for me, but I can see why it wouldn't be for everyone. I don't know about kids yet, but we have decided that they're the right thing for us. I was the guardian for a teenager for several years, and I can't say how fulfilling it is to see what a fine young woman she's becoming. Having the opportunity to do this from the very beginning will, I hope, be the same experience, but turned up several notches.
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I'm against ending blackness. I believe that everyone has a right to be black, it's a choice, and I support that.
~Steven Colbert
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