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Perhaps it is just the brutal honesty of the sex for money situation that makes such automatic condemnation of it justifiable. As has been said, this does happen often enough with anyone going home with a stranger from a bar. You can't tell me that an emotionally healthy man or woman has not gone out with the specific intention to have sex with an unknown person. Perhaps it is just as self-destructive an option as when money changes hands to make it happen. But would you lecture them to look in the mirror each morning and call him or herself a whore? You should see Tucker Max. :/
There is a reason that prostitution is the oldest profession. There are many, many persons (let's face it, mainly women) who are coerced or otherwise driven by circumstance to exchange sexual favours for money. But what is going too far? What if the 'service' went no further than just fooling around with the girl and giving a BJ to the guy? Would penetration be the ultimate psychological trauma and seed of regret? There are some people who choose to fuck for money, whether they be porn stars, hookers or gold diggers. Porn stars get fans, gold diggers get E! reality shows, hookers are morally corrupt scum. (to go to extreme lengths of hyperbole)
Obviously this situation is resolved, and I wouldn't have suggested prostitution as the ultimate resolution. But it's an option she is free to choose.
As for telling it all to a partner... this kind of scenario is on par with fucking around in any situation (though a bit variable depending on the clientèle). Anything that may bring risk to a sexual partner should be in the open. A former romantic interest of mine keeps getting check-ups regularly, even when not sexually active, mainly due to past... risky activities.
Meh, my mind is failing. Just remember, harlots need love too.
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